10 Ways To Reduce Your Daily Stress Relax. You deserve it, it's good for you, and it takes less time than you think.


As a twenty something trying to make my way in the world, pay my bills, maintain my relationship with my GF, raise two cats and advance my career, stress in my life is inevitable.

Sometimes my stress levels can be higher than others, especially during times of the year like right now, when I have a lot of work projects and deadlines to meet. I’m also just naturally prone to anxiety, even during less hectic periods.

The truth is that we all deal with stress, regardless of our situations. Every single person has things in his or her life that cause stress. And many times there isn’t much we can do about the causes themselves.

We can, however, recognize when we’re feeling anxiety, and take action to reduce our overall stress levels so we’re more in control of our lives.

I am incredibly grateful for the fact that over time I have learned how to better cope with stress and ultimately live a healthy (for my body and my mind) lifestyle – but it wasn’t always this way.

For many years, I allowed stress to take over, mainly because it got to the point where feeling stressed out was such a regular part of my life that I didn’t know any different.

I used to overwork myself to the point of getting physically sick. I would work until 1 or 2 AM, lie in bed with horrendous insomnia worrying about what I hadn’t gotten done or what I had to do the following day, wake up exhausted, immediately check email and start on work again, only eat when I remembered to (which wasn’t often), and continue into the night again.

I never made time for exercise or took breaks for myself. As a result, I experienced frequent panic attacks, often felt depressed because I was so burned out, and had a hard time functioning.

I genuinely had to reach a really low point before I realized that I needed to make changes, and that those changes started with being intentional about recognizing and practicing small ways to reduce my stress in the day to day.

Over the past year, I’ve discovered some specific things that have really helped me reduce not just stress in general, but also how that stress negatively affects my body and mind.

By recognizing stress and feeling the effects of it when it occurs; and making small, intentional changes in our lives to lessen these things; we can ultimately feel calmer, healthier.

I feel happier as a result, and focus more on the things we enjoy in our lives.

Today I’m sharing ten things I’ve found to really help me reduce my own daily stress that I hope can help you out as well.

1. Meditate

A few minutes of practice per day can help ease anxiety. “Research suggests that daily meditation may alter the brain’s neural pathways, making you more resilient to stress,” says psychologist Robbie Maller Hartman, PhD, a Chicago health and wellness coach.
It’s simple. Sit up straight with both feet on the floor. Close your eyes. Focus your attention on reciting — out loud or silently — a positive mantra such as “I feel at peace” or “I love myself.” Place one hand on your belly to sync the mantra with your breaths. Let any distracting thoughts float by like clouds.

2. Breathe Deeply

Take a 5-minute break and focus on your breathing. Sit up straight, eyes closed, with a hand on your belly. Slowly inhale through your nose, feeling the breath start in your abdomen and work its way to the top of your head. Reverse the process as you exhale through yourmouth.
“Deep breathing counters the effects of stress by slowing the heart rate and lowering blood pressure,” psychologist Judith Tutin, PhD, says. She’s a certified life coach in Rome, GA.

3. Be Present

Slow down.

“Take 5 minutes and focus on only one behavior with awareness,” Tutin says. Notice how the air feels on your face when you’re walking and how your feet feel hitting the ground. Enjoy the texture and taste of each bite of food.
When you spend time in the moment and focus on your senses, you should feel less tense.

4. Reach Out

Your social network is one of your best tools for handling stress. Talk to others — preferably face to face, or at least on the phone. Share what’s going on. You can get a fresh perspective while keeping your connection strong.

5. Tune In to Your Body

Mentally scan your body to get a sense of how stress affects it each day. Lie on your back, or sit with your feet on the floor. Start at your toes and work your way up to your scalp, noticing how your body feels.

“Simply be aware of places you feel tight or loose without trying to change anything,” Tutin says. For 1 to 2 minutes, imagine each deep breath flowing to that body part. Repeat this process as you move your focus up your body, paying close attention to sensations you feel in each body part.

6. Decompress

Place a warm heat wrap around your neck and shoulders for 10 minutes. Close your eyes and relax your face, neck, upper chest, and back muscles. Remove the wrap, and use a tennis ball or foam roller tomassage away tension.

“Place the ball between your back and the wall. Lean into the ball, and hold gentle pressure for up to 15 seconds. Then move the ball to another spot, and apply pressure,” says Cathy Benninger, a nurse practitioner and assistant professor at The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center in Columbus.

7. Laugh Out Loud

A good belly laugh doesn’t just lighten the load mentally. It lowers cortisol, your body’s stress hormone, and boosts brain chemicals called endorphins, which help your mood. Lighten up by tuning in to your favorite sitcom or video, reading the comics, or chatting with someone who makes you smile.

8. Crank Up the Tunes

Research shows that listening to soothing music can lower blood pressure, heart rate, and anxiety.

“Create a playlist of songs or nature sounds (the ocean, a bubbling brook, birds chirping), and allow your mind to focus on the different melodies, instruments, or singers in the piece,” Benninger says. You also can blow off steam by rocking out to more upbeat tunes — or singing at the top of your lungs!

9. Get Moving

You don’t have to run in order to get a runner’s high. All forms of exercise, including yoga and walking, can ease depression and anxiety by helping the brain release feel-good chemicals and by giving your body a chance to practice dealing with stress. You can go for a quick walk around the block, take the stairs up and down a few flights, or do some stretching exercises like head rolls and shoulder shrugs.

10. Be Grateful

Keep a gratitude journal or several (one by your bed, one in your purse, and one at work) to help you remember all the things that are good in your life.

“Being grateful for your blessings cancels out negative thoughts and worries,” says Joni Emmerling, a wellness coach in Greenville, NC.

Use these journals to savor good experiences like a child’s smile, a sunshine-filled day, and good health.

Don’t forget to celebrate accomplishments like mastering a new task at work or a new hobby.


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